How to deal with your ex boyfriend

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Relationships can become tricky, especially when you break up with someone, and then you'll find that you start to have more feelings for their friends than they do. Of course, it's not ideal, but as Selena Gomez said, what the heart wants is what it wants, and it can't control other people's influence on you. First of all, understand that this idea may be better than actually acting on what you feel. It's bad to break up. You feel lonely and sad. Of course, the idea of associating with someone you're used to sounds great, but remember how you first met them. Unless you and your ex boyfriend are good friends and they encourage both of you to try, your presence is likely to be between your ex boyfriend and his ex boyfriend. If you think you are fighting a losing battle with your feelings, here's how to deal with it.

1. Talk to an unbiased friend. There is nothing better than having a touchstone in those intense moments of infatuation.

2。 Free yourself from your ex friends. You don't have to ignore them, but try to fill in your text and hang up time with people you haven't seen in a while.

3。 Develop new hobbies. Nothing can distract you more than a good craft / sport / course, etc.

4。 Open up to others and say "yes" to your date, even if you're not interested in dating. A date won't kill you. You may be surprised at the people you're with!

5。 If your relationship is not over, talk to your current partner and see what they will say. It may just be the end you need to continue, or if they feel the same way, you can think of ways to start something while being sensitive to your ex's feelings.